You’re Intelligent and Successful – At Least That’s What Everyone Says. So
How Come You Don’t Feel Like It?
Instead of feeling satisfaction, with every achievement you’re filled with
anxiety you’ll be unmasked as an incompetent
fraud… What’s wrong with you? Nothing…
You CAN feel like the smart, talented, self-assured person everyone else
sees… Learn why the Impostor Syndrome with
its ever present fear of being “found out” is undermining your entire life…
And how to free yourself to find greater personal, professional and
financial fulfillment than you’ve ever experienced!
Discover the first ever program to break through the chronic self-doubt
that’s hindered your success and that of millions of other bright, capable
people… When Sarah walks into the
courtroom all eyes are on her. After all, she’s a successful
corporate attorney with a string of wins under her belt. The judge, the
jury, and the other lawyers listen to her every syllable. It’s no
surprise that she’s well-prepared and delivers her arguments in a clear and
confident voice. But it wasn’t always that way…
Just a short time ago Sarah entered court filled with dread. Her palms
sweaty and her stomach knotted in fear. It’s not that she wasn’t ready – in
fact, she was always over-prepared. But she couldn’t stop thinking she’d do
or say something really dumb. Then all of her faults would be laid out on
the table for everyone to see. Even if
everything went exceptionally well, her moment of victory soon felt
empty. She’d think to herself… "I pulled it off
this time, but next time I won’t be so lucky…" |
Have You Ever… -
Secretly worried others will find out you’re not as smart as they
seem to think you are? -
Turned away from a challenge because of nagging self-doubt? -
Felt crushed by constructive criticism, knowing it’s a mark of your
ineptitude? -
Dismissed your accomplishments as “No big deal?” -
Thought that “responsible people” in “responsible jobs” are a lot
more “adult” than you? |
Sound familiar? When was the last time you felt terrified of making a
mistake or not doing everything perfectly? Shrugged off an accomplishment to
hard work, “they just like me,” or a fluke instead of your own talents? You
probably do it all of the time – maybe without even realizing it…
Yet it’s these thoughts of self-doubt, these feelings of shame – like you
don’t deserve to take credit for your own accomplishments – that slowly
undermine your life. How? Well, for one thing, if you can’t claim your
achievements on a gut level, then when you reach the next rung of success
it’s emotionally unclear how you got there.
This kind of chronic self-doubt robs you of your successes and ultimately
your own happiness and fulfillment… But it
doesn’t have to… Sarah learned how to end
the debilitating cycle. Finally, she feels like the
confident attorney everybody else sees.
And once she escaped the emotions that held her back for years, she found a
life-satisfaction like she’s never known. Now you can do the same whether
you suffer from occasional self-doubt or are plagued by these feelings
all of the time…
Never Again Will You Have To Worry
That You’re Going To Be Found Out…
Instead, you can feel to your core like a creative, intelligent and capable
person whether you’re sitting in an important meeting, taking on a new job
or assignment, or preparing to make a presentation. How do I know?
Because I used to be standing in your shoes…
It’s hard to describe what it was like to discover that my vague feelings of
self-doubt, angst and intellectual fraudulence had a name – the Impostor
Syndrome. Sounds like a serious psychological diagnosis doesn’t it?
Fortunately, I’m not crazy and neither are you…
The Impostor Syndrome is very real. But few people understand where the
feelings come from and that’s a BIG part of the problem…
You see, whenever you doubt yourself you slip into a self-limiting pattern
of behavior. A pattern ingrained when you were small, perpetuated by society
and eventually by your own thoughts and actions. It’s like a tape that plays
again and again in your head reinforcing an undermining message about what
it means to be "competent." And no matter how hard you try, you can’t break
free… It
doesn’t matter if you’re a student, a high-paid attorney, a middle manager,
or an Academy Award Winning actress like Jodie Foster...
That’s right, even she’s doubted her success. Hard to believe, but
true. Jodie confessed to 60 Minutes' Mike
Wallace she felt like she didn’t deserve her golden Oscar. She even went so
far as to call it a mistake…
“I thought it was a fluke. The same way [I did] when I walked on the campus
at Yale. I thought everybody would find out, and they’d take the Oscar back.
They’d come to my house, knocking on the door, "Excuse me, we meant to give
that to someone else. That was going to Meryl Streep.”
Streep wasn't the only one waiting for a knock on the door, Mike Meyers says
he's always waiting for the "no talent police" to show up. Lack of
confidence? Not hardly. That’s the Impostor Syndrome rearing its ugly head
and stealing well-deserved happiness. But successful women aren’t the only
ones who feel it. Men from all walks of life experience the doubt and
anxiety too. It’s true. Although most of the people who’ve attended my
workshops are women, many men feel exactly the same way.
In fact, 70% of all people reported feeling at one time or another like
their success is a fraud. But virtually no one knows what to do
about it… Finally, that can change.
Starting Today, You Can Release Yourself
From Self-Doubt And Take Control
Of Your Achievements… For more two
decades I’ve been traveling the country helping people stop the mental tape
and release these feelings, people like Sarah. I’ve gotten such positive
feedback from my workshops that I wanted to reach out to more people. And
since not everyone has the time or money to attend a seminar, I created a
program so you can end the Impostor Syndrome on your own.
Think of it as your very own "workshop for one…"
Finally you’ll discover WHY you and millions of others are
affected by the Impostor Syndrome…
Uncover HOW the Impostor Syndrome is working in your own life,
holding you back and stopping you from achieving the success, satisfaction
and true happiness you deserve. And most
importantly, learn WHAT to do about it.
You’ll discover a proven process to recognize your own Impostor patterns,
understand them, and overcome them. You’ll emerge on the other side feeling
stronger. More capable. More confident. And ready to take on whatever life
throws at you without the slightest flicker of doubt…
The Real You Is Smarter And More Articulate Than You’ve Ever
Realized It’s true. And after
this program you’ll know it – better yet, you’ll feel it. That’s why
it’s called How to Feel As Bright and Capable As Everyone
Seems to Think You Are.
This brand new program is a one-of-a-kind journey of self discovery that can
benefit anyone who’s ever doubted their competence or felt like they could
"do better." Inside you’ll discover:
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“Two years ago my life was in shambles. Over the last two years, I've
put it back together but always thought as I got to the next level that
it was happening too quickly and coming too easily. (Valerie) gave me
insight into why I think and feel what I do. The answers aren't easy,
but at least I know where I can get them. Thanks!” ~Pamela
V., Texas A & M | -
Which groups are most "at risk" for the Impostor Syndrome and why… -
The "Other Factor." Dig deep and uncover just how much other people’s
needs and opinions are guiding you and leading you away from your real
self. Then learn to take back control… -
The truth about perfectionism and why you’re likely setting impossible
to reach standards for yourself… -
The subtle message society sends children – how your parents and
teachers ingrained it in you and how you can stop the cycle… -
How to quit berating yourself over failure and actually use mistakes to
your advantage. (You’ll never look in the mirror the same way again!) -
The liberating feeling of rewarding yourself for effort, not just
outcome… -
Your debilitating "crusher." Learn how it’s squeezing the confidence
from every decision you make and how to squash it forever…
Then Discover More Than 20 Exercises to
Delve Into Your Real Feelings This program
goes far beyond those scratch the surface self-discovery manuals, it’s a
true workshop-for-one. There are more
than 20 exercises that take you deep into
the internal messages, childhood experiences, current thoughts and beliefs
that are fanning the fires of your self doubt…
You’ll roll up your sleeves and examine them all
one by one. Finally, you’ll get the chance to uncover your REAL
feelings about your successes, your competence and your failures. And what’s
hidden in your inner-most thoughts and feelings will likely surprise you –
no matter how many self-discovery books or workshops you’ve finished.
You’ll learn things about yourself you never knew before.
I’ve seen it happen time and again. It’s a natural and wonderful part of the
process. And that’s what How to Feel As Bright and
Capable As Everyone Seems to Think You Are really
is, a process of truly knowing yourself and releasing the stronger, more
confident you buried under the layers of self-doubt. And the exercises are
just the beginning…
Uncover a Proven Process To Reveal the
Impostor Syndrome’s Inner Workings
in Your Life Inside I’ll guide you
through the same 10 step process I’ve lead more than 30,000 workshop
attendees through. You’ll discover how your feelings and beliefs have made
room for the Impostor Syndrome to take hold in your life. And you’ll learn
which limiting patterns of behavior are holding YOU back from completely
owning your successes and achieving even more.
And as you move forward, you’ll find the answers to questions that have
silently plagued you for years… By the end
you’ll have experienced so many moments of "aha!" you’ll be able to look
yourself in the mirror and say "now I understand."
And even though you’ll feel
like a brand new person, your journey will just be beginning…
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“There were a lot of
stories/situations that really hit home for me. I think that my favorite
most useful part was recognizing the negative voices.”
~Susan P., Cornell University |
Next you’ll take everything you’ve learned and use it to create a positive,
open-ended, personalized plan for action. A plan you can use
immediately to end the Impostor Syndrome in your life. At long last you’ll
know what to do to stop the self-limiting tape that’s playing in your head
and make those feelings of doubt and fraudulence go away forever…
You’ll learn exactly how in How to Feel As Bright and
Capable As Everyone Seems to Think You Are.
What’s more, this program gives you the tools to make this entire journey
alone or create your own workshop with a
group of trusted friends. No matter which route you choose, when you’re
finished you’ll feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off your
shoulders. And finally you’ll be able to see yourself as others see you – as
the intelligent, successful person you are.
This Is the Only Program That Addresses
Your Unique Personal Experience There’s no
psycho babble. No one telling you how you should
be feeling. This is a program rooted in real life. It’s based on my own
struggle overcoming Impostor Syndrome. And developed from the more than 30
years I’ve spent studying it and helping women work through their behaviors
to find happier, healthier, more satisfying personal and professional lives…
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“[I have] new resolve to make changes in my life.”
~Francis R., University of
Massachusetts |
Is it just for women? No. Although it’s
founded in the unique challenges women face, the exercises in self-discovery
will be useful to anyone who’s doubted their success – even the most
self-assured male. If you’ve ever thought "I don’t belong
here" or
"I can’t do this" then
How to Feel As Bright and Capable As Everyone Seems to Think You Are
is made for you…
And this program is truly one of a kind…
You won’t find anything like it in your library or over at Barnes and Noble.
In fact, you’ll be lucky to find any book at all
dedicated to the Impostor Syndrome. (The only two I know of are out of
print.) And you certainly won’t find a program that helps you uncover your
own unique experience with Impostor Syndrome and create a
concrete course of action to freedom! The
truth is, the Impostor Syndrome just isn’t talked about much.
That’s why so many people live their entire lives without being able to put
a name on the feelings, much less learn how to overcome them! And the price
they pay is a heavy one… Many are never able to move
beyond "safe" dead-end jobs because they’re afraid to take risks…
Others never make as much money as they could because they think they don’t
deserve success or anxiety causes them to miss opportunities to meet
valuable contacts… Then there’s the physical and
emotional toll from the stress of feeling like an Impostor. It got so bad
for one woman she thought she was having a heart attack… But
worst of all, is never experiencing the enjoyment of OWNING success and
achievement. Just ask Sarah…
For the first time in her life she isn’t wracked with doubt, anxiety, fear
and frustration when she’s in an important situation. Instead, she feels to
her core like she deserves to succeed and she’s reveling in it!
After all of these years she can finally look herself in the mirror and
really feel like the creative, intelligent and capable
woman she is… But none of it would have
happened if she hadn’t followed the process outlined in
How to Feel As Bright and Capable As Everyone Seems to Think You Are…
You Too Can Find Greater
Personal, Professional & Financial
Fulfillment Than You’ve Ever Known… Stop
denying yourself the self satisfaction and success you deserve. Reveal the
bright, confident, self-assured person everyone else sees – the person you
really are. It’s never been easier…
You
don’t have to take the time to travel to a workshop like Sarah and you
certainly don’t have to pay up to $7,000 to bring one to your
organization. For the first time, you can learn to recognize the
Impostor Syndrome in your life and create a workable plan to end the
self-doubt – all from the comfort of your own home.
And
you can start on your journey of self discovery right
this minute…
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“I was able to identify some of the reasons why I fear being
successful or being the center of attention.”
~Jessica S., Cornell University |
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“[It] made me realize what I am doing in my professional life and how to
correct the error of my ways.” ~Trisha
S., Texas A&M |
You CAN get out from under the grip of the Impostor Syndrome. Finally, you
can recognize the thoughts, feelings and actions that are reinforcing
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a mistake or not knowing everything or not doing everything perfectly will
fall away. The doubts over whether you really deserve success will
disappear. And the feelings of incompetence and self-doubt will evaporate.
In their place for the first time will be possibility without boundary, and
the tools you need to find self satisfaction and success you never dreamed
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