Impostor Syndrome and Procrastination

Impostor Syndrome and Procrastination

No one chooses to experience impostor syndrome. That nagging belief that, despite evidence of past accomplishments, you’ve somehow fooled others into thinking you’re more intelligent, talented, or capable as others know you to be. But whether you know it or not, you...
Impostor Syndrome and the Dark Triad

Impostor Syndrome and the Dark Triad

If you don’t feel like an impostor, that means you are one. Presumably, this news is intended to reassure those of us who’ve experienced that “I’m in over my head and they’re going to find out” feeling popularly known as impostor syndrome. There’s just one problem....
From Impostor Syndrome to Humble Realist™

From Impostor Syndrome to Humble Realist™

I believe most people want to do their best work. But when you feel like an impostor, “best” means expectations that go far beyond doing well. Over the years, you’ve adopted assumptions about what’s required for you to be considered talented, knowledgeable, skilled,...
It’s Not All About You

It’s Not All About You

One of my clients had spent years lovingly caring for an ailing parent.  After “Kim’s” mother passed, she began to write a play about her experience.  Then she stopped. “What if my play is a hit?” she said, “Then I’d have to play big.” Kim wasn’t afraid of failure;...